Nick Yelland has spent most of his life dealing with pain.
He was hurting inside, feeling different, feeling excluded from others, almost for as long as he can remember.
Those issues manifested themselves when he started school, led him down the road to drug addiction and fooling himself into believing that acquiring things鈥攍iving the good life as he perceived it鈥攃ould overcome the hurt that he carried inside himself.
But after a lifetime of hurting many of those closest to him, friends and family, Yelland has come to better understand why he was a drug addict, and is now funnelling his emotional distress through a newfound Christian faith to change his life.
Today, Yelland is 鈥楶astor Nick,鈥� a celebrate recovery pastor with the Evangel Church in 91大黄鸭 and a theology school graduate.
Yelland was one of several guest speakers participating at a public forum hosted by the church today as part of the International Overdose Awareness Day activities in 91大黄鸭.
Besides the forum, a candlelight vigil is schedule for tonight at Kerry Park (8 to 10 a.m.) in memory of drug overdose victims.
鈥淚 have done horrible things to people in my past that I regret doing, but there is nothing I can do about my past except to believe in forgiveness and move on in a more positive direction in life,鈥� Yelland said.
鈥淭here are issues I still struggle with today even as a pastor. I realize now I need the help of others to break the cycle I was in, to stop the hurting. We need to learn how to reach out, to trust, to love ourselves.
鈥淲e are taught by society that men have to be tough, but it鈥檚 okay to hurt inside and admit it to others.鈥�
Yelland remembers how as a youth he felt doctors or psychologists talking to him would recognize how disenfranchised he felt inside, frustrated at why they could not see the pain he was feeling inside even if he was loathe to talk openly about it.
鈥淚 was missing a sense of belonging, a sense of community. I could be in a room with 30 people and still feel like I was all alone,鈥� he recalled. 鈥淚 struggled with that pain, not knowing where I fit in from an early age.鈥�
Helen Jennens, with the 91大黄鸭 chapter of Moms Stop The Harm, talked about the need for a change in dynamics from fighting a war on drugs to embracing compassion and inclusion for those struggling with drug addictions.
Jennens, who lost two sons to drug overdoses鈥擱ian in 2011 and Tyler in 2016鈥攕aid labelling people as drug addicts is the wrong approach to the wave of drug overdoses occurring across B.C. and in the Okanagan.
Instead, she says the need is to address the emotional root causes fueling people鈥檚 addictions, which can also involve providing safe injection services, should be the greater objective.
鈥淧eople will say to me why should our tax dollars go to help provide someone with drugs who is an active addict, but I argue about the cost to medically treat people in our health care system with drug addictions. It takes six emergency responder people to deal with one overdose. What is the cost of that?鈥�
Jennens said the local positive response to Overdose Awareness Day, started by a group of mothers in Australia in 2001, has been overwhelming to her. 鈥淚 am very grateful for that response and it gives me great hope about the caring and compassionate community that exists in 91大黄鸭,鈥� Jennens said.
Yelland says finding that compassion from others and within himself it was has saved him from a lifetime of suicide attempts and a daily need for drugs over his past 35 years.
鈥淚t takes a lot of work. You have to start out with the concept that people do love you, that you are not out there alone,鈥� he said.
The public forum also included presentations by officials representing city council, 91大黄鸭 General Hospital, Interior Health, Living Positive Resource Centre and Metro Community Church, along with a naloxone kit demonstration.
