A pay phone planted in the side of a hill in Greater Victoria鈥檚 Royal Oak Burial Park offers a 鈥減rofound鈥� new way to grieve.
The path there is a long one, uphill past the landmark Art Deco building that cost the cemetery board $16,000 to build in the 1930s.
Adorned in painted flowers, birds, greenery and a sweet little dog courtesy of local artist Beth Threlfall, the phone is the newest form of remembrance in the 100-year-old park that is always evolving ways to help people grieve.
The 鈥渨ind phone鈥� was created by Japanese architect Itaru Sasaki in 2010 to cope with his cousin鈥檚 death. The disconnected phone afforded a way to reconnect with the lost loved one by making a 鈥渃all.鈥� Put up on his private land, it opened to the public in the following year after a devastating earthquake and tsunami killed more than 15,000 people.
The revelation of a new way to grieve spurred an international movement.
The Royal Oak wind phone is tucked beside the Little Spirits Garden 鈥� a 2010 addition to support families who experience pregnancy or infant loss 鈥� and overlooks much of the park.
The location was crucial to Amanda Farrell-Low who embarked on 鈥渜uite the journey鈥� of installing a wind phone two years ago. That鈥檚 when she approacched Royal Oak executive director Ilan Highton, who approached his board and all agreed it aligned with their commitment to serve the community in meaningful ways.
鈥淭he 鈥榩hone of the wind鈥� represents a unique blend of tradition and innovation, offering comfort in the time-honoured setting of a cemetery while introducing a creative approach to mourning and remembrance. We are pleased to see this project come together and look forward to it being a thoughtful and comforting resource for our community,鈥� Highton said.
Together the pair searched high and low for the right site.
鈥淭his one just seemed perfect because it鈥檚 a little bit hidden away鈥� you kind of have to discover it a bit. You have a bit of privacy,鈥� Farrell-Low said.
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She learned about the phones from a newspaper article about a Lower Mainland wind phone dedicated in memory of someone lost to overdose and thought it sounded like something Greater Victoria could use. A researcher by nature, she set out to learn more about the wind phone.
鈥淭hese things started spreading around Japan as a way for people to connect with folks they鈥檇 lost and now they鈥檙e all over the world,鈥� Farrell-Low said.
For her, the idea held personal value. She lost her younger brother Liam to overdose in 2012 and he鈥檚 actually buried in Royal Oak Burial Park 鈥� just one reason the location seemed ideal.
鈥淪ometimes when I come to see him it feels kind of weird going up to this grave in the middle of this field and trying to think about the person or connect with them. The wind phone just seemed like a really cool way to have an excuse to pick up the phone, dial a number and talk to somebody. It can feel like a really profound way to connect with someone,鈥� she said.
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As the wind phone movement grows, so do the designs, but she had a pay phone in mind 鈥� not easy to find.
鈥淚 really thought a pay phone would be great. So I started looking for one and, of course, there aren鈥檛 a lot anymore right, they鈥檙e all kind of gone. I reached a few dead ends.鈥�
Again someone sent her a newspaper story about pay phones with an email that eventually led to Doug Ferguson 鈥� the guy tasked with decommissioning them across Vancouver Island. Before that he was the guy who kept them operational. He had the perfect 鈥渉eritage booth鈥� and donated it to the cause.
鈥淗e鈥檚 been really amazing and a really cool person to get to know,鈥� Farrell-Low said.
Ferguson cleaned up the booth, made sure all the parts were there and helped install it on the Saanich hillside.
Phone found, Farrell-Low reached out to Victoria artist Threlfall, the woman who inspired pole art in Fernwood, then beyond.
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鈥淪he does a lot of community-based work and work that re-purposes old material so she was a natural partner for this,鈥� Farrell-Low said.
There are purple flowers for overdose awareness, a little dog to represent Liam鈥檚 dog, and lupins 鈥� common in the Yukon where Farrell-Low and her brother grew up. A wind chime hangs on one open side.
A bench and a phone book are in the works, as is the path to the wooded site.
鈥淚t鈥檚 a simple idea but it鈥檚 really powerful,鈥� Farrell-Low said.
She鈥檚 done a little test phone call but is waiting for a quiet moment, perhaps the anniversary of Liam鈥檚 death on Jan. 26 for a dedicated chat to him.
